I love playing at The Nest. It has privacy, ambience and an awful lot of toys and equiptment to facilitate lots of kinky fun – but variety is the spice of life, and I find myself craving the thrill of discrete kink in the outside world. I’ve listed a few ideas below…

The Siren Dominatrix photographed at Cardiff Nest by UK empowerment photographer © Tigz Rice Ltd 2024. http://www.tigzrice.com

1. For the Sub that enjoys a little competition:

At Six by Nico, the menu is empty, and guests are invited to write what they think they have eaten. Treat me to dinner there, and we’ll have a little game. We’ll agree a prize beforehand, and then it’s up to our palettes. Whomever has the most correct guesses, wins…oh, I should mention, I take no issue in using my Feminine charms to distract you from your tasting.

2. For the Sub who has an artistic streak:

I am energised by learning and by creating. I love nothing more. Can you find a maker who could teach us how to make floggers? How about leather work? I had a phenomenal time making my own dildo with Adele Brydges, I want more experiences like that!

3. For the sub who shares my love for dungeons and dragons:

I adore playing dungeons and dragons. Even more so, when I get to spend a weekend with my friends, all staying in one place, for the sole reason to dedicate to D&D antics. This is probably best suited to a sub who is service oriented, but I love the idea of having a personal slave to serve Me and my friends whilst we geek out.

Incase you were wondering, My 2023 fantasy shoot with Jamie Mahon inspired the creation of General Ithraides Auradiphilie; wildfire druid and renowned battle strategist.

4. For the Caged Boy with a penchant for being teased and denied:

I very much enjoy going to parties like Killing Kittens, and want to explore other such events – the Fox Den and Fox and Badge look right up my alley. I’ll keep you on a leesh, caged, and deny you, and put you to use as I see fit.

5. For the Sub that enjoys a little culture:

It may be a cliche to take your Mistress to the opera, but I happen to adore the art form. Let me geek out in the interval with you about the music, the performances, the design.

Photo by Studio Medusa

6. For the Sub with deep pockets:

Many ficitonal depictions of Dominatrixes feature them being taken for a shopping spree. I have never experienced this, or ever had an enquirey to do so. I love the fantasy of it and am curious to see how it can be navigated.

7. For the Sub who loves to travel:

I would consider travelling with a sub whom I trust and enjoy spending time with. Whether we explore a city together, or spend a long weekend in some picturesque cabin, playing out some more lengthly scenarios, I find myself fantasising about these posibilities more and more.

This is not an opportunity open to everyone, you’ll have to had to have spent enough time with me to be considered a valued regular: the kind that when your email comes into my inbox I instantly smile in anticipation.

8. For the Sub that wants to be cuckholded

Cuckholding is a huge turn on for me, and not a kink I’ve been able to indulge much in outside of specific couples bookings- but do I spend hours fantasising about forcing a sub to facilitate my insane libido whilst denying them every pleasure…..? Yes.

9. For the Rope Bunny:

I feel like my shibari skills have plateaued a little. I’m keen to do some more formal learning alongside my own private study. How about a rope weekend together?

10. For the Sub who loves an immersive experience:

I adore Punchdrunk (tickets always a welcomed gift), and love to see that people are building on using immersive theatre as a base for other experiences. A few have caught my eye:

Avora London – a journey into magical new enviroments in all the pursuit of a good cocktail!

Phantom Peak – an open world to explore – part escape room, part theatre, part video game, and there’s food?!

The Siren’s Empowering boudoir shoot with UK Boudoir Photographer © Tigz Rice Ltd 2023. http://www.tigzrice.com

Are the ideas above exciting you as much as they are me? Jump into my inbox with a proposed date and let’s see where it goes!